Thread:YingHe/@comment-36159587-20190323014144/@comment-36159587-20190516043224

I wanted to just put some more philosophy on here. (Like I see other homethreads talking about fun stuff and then there's this...which is like...I don't know at this point.)

They say that you find a person to click with, so that led me to wonder if that's really the case.

Those from the forums who were on them while I was probably encountered one of my great (in quantity, not in quality) speeches at some time. Usually I directed them towards times where the forums were having an issue, or were going to have an issue, in my opinion. Most of them were kind of like my philosophies. But my "philosophies" don't explain something. It's more like how I wish, and hope, that things could be.

But I guess this, about friendship, will be more like a philosophical analogy.

As I like to think about it, one should love one's own friends, and those friends probably love one back as well. "Love" is so overcomplicated nowadays (again, still in my opinion), but for me it means...caring for someone else. Being loyal and devoted to them. Probably more, but it's really not that complicated.

So to say...do people really 'click'? If I think about it...it's more as if people adjust to each other.

For me, friendship has always been strange. Sometimes it almost feels as if I've only had acquaintances. As it turns out, many of my friends change over time, or I change, or something changes that ends up with the ending of that "mutual bond of affection".

But if that something never changed, I still wonder if that friendship would have been able to continue. At some point, everything changes, doesn't it? So was that friendship bound to break at some point? Which in turn led to me wondering...what is actually at blame for friendships ending?

Just change?

So does that mean that whatever caused people to 'click' just disappear?

Call me strange, but I base what I think of others on impressions. On my own, first, because I'm not comfortable with others knowing me too much before I know them. I usually watch, and that's also why I'm usually that one kid sitting on his own for the first half of the year. ...Or years.

Oftentimes, when I was a tiny bit younger, I was like other kids. I would just ask, "Can you be my friend...?" and then he/she would say, "Sure!" with all enthusiasm, and then we would be "official" friends...

But that never lasted for me. But of course, there are always childhood friends who have always been friends. So through all this change, there must be a way they keep being friends.

I think...that change really doesn't matter in this case. Because I think if two people really want to maintain their friendship, they accept the change.

So I like to think of people as jigsaw puzzle pieces. But the pieces don't always fit. They have rough edges--but they still fit.

(Yeah sorry, I wanted to put more explanation, but I still have more homework >_<)

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