Thread:GalaxE/@comment-36159587-20191107004319/@comment-36159587-20191110000612

Ignoring isn't doing anything.

Changing perspective just isn't going to work on my side, because I'm really stubborn. I mean, it's just ridiculous to have to change my perspective to "Oh my characters all need to like yours", or "Oh characters all should be the same". Because the point of RPing is to make characters unique, not all the same, and duh, they're going to have friends and enemies. Anyone care to dispute that? xD

I know you're saying an example, but I really, really don't think I'm the one pinning the blame entirely on someone else. I've been used as a scapegoat before, and it's...not good at all. I know I have faults, but I don't want to be the one who changes dramatically, if I'm not the one on the offending side.

It's a general rule that being rude about others and saying negative stuff about them usually applies to yourself. I could call someone else any negative adjective, but what does that say about me? Bad things, of course. It's just like how gossiping about someone behind their backs (because, sorry, gossiping about them in front of them is highkey dumb) ruins your own reputation too. That's why I try to say positive things about others. 'Course, there's a line I cross at times too.

Just being on the defensive for all of this isn't optimal for my personality. I'm a debater, and I like standing in the middle, maybe leaning towards one side. Not being forced into a little corner where another expects me to change my beliefs completely to fit theirs. That's just not how it works. Everyone has their opinions, and those opinions conflict at times; it's how those opinions achieve a balance that makes two people respectable.

-Galaxian-