Thread:Crowsoul50/@comment-33229352-20190304041126/@comment-32273133-20191016104316

R for respect indeed!! Understanding takes a while,,,sometimes forever. i still know people who don’t get why deadnaming is so sucky and ask “but what’s their REAL NAME” like it doesn’t??? matter??? what someone’s deadname is?? Knowing that doesn’t give you special powers over them, so asking just makes you sound transphobic. Also I’m constantly getting marked off for using singular they in one of my classes, though whether it’s actual points taken away or just marks I don’t know, it’s still frustrating. Language changes! It evolves as needed! And people have been using singular they for such a long time! Why get all up in arms about it?

tl;dr, i get it, me too, holy fuck is it exhausting sometimes